Dalila, you said that good oral sex is often better than the actual act. An unusual view…
Do you think so? Oral sex is so much more than blowing and licking. I think it’s an art of love, and those who master it will open up whole new dimensions of pleasure for their partner. Incidentally, I don’t know any woman who doesn’t love being licked perfectly and passionately.
My wife likes it when I do it with my tongue – but only as foreplay…
Are you sure about that? Maybe she finds it exciting as a stimulant, but you stop too soon or you don’t really know her preferences yet.
Have you ever put your tongue in her vagina and gently thrust with your tongue?
No, I haven’t.
You should try it. Most women find it incredibly arousing, and you’ll find that as a man, you’ll feel the thrusts with your tongue in your cock. Take your time, don’t just do it three or four times, but 50, even 60 times. I bet you’ll both come without doing anything else.
I’ll try it. But actually, I wanted to know what men are into.
You have some really funny views.
Men often don’t know what they’re into. Most of them have had more or less good blow jobs and then tell me they’re into giving head. I often ask them if they want to discover the art of French love with me.
And what’s the reaction?
Half of them just want a blowjob as foreplay or to get off, the other half go along with the suggestion.
By the way, no man has ever been disappointed afterwards, at most exhausted (laughs).
And how does your journey of discovery unfold?
It’s always different. I’m surprised myself every time by what I discover with a new partner.
I like to start with intense kisses. To feel and embrace the other person’s lips with my lips. To feel the warmth, the desire that slowly increases with every kiss.
And yes: kissing is also oral sex, perhaps the most intense kind…
It’s already working for me, the way you describe it. And then what happens next?
I like to use my tongue. I love French kissing, I love penetrating his mouth. First gently, then more and more demanding. And he should really use his tongue on me…
take. I like it rough when he takes me and thrusts into me like wild sex.
With a man who knows how to French kiss, I get incredibly intense orgasms just from that.
Do you touch the man while doing this, do you take his cock in your hand?
No, I prefer not to. It’s not necessary. Anyone who engages in this kind of kissing will have no need for other forms of arousal at that moment. But I do like to unbutton his shirt or push up his jumper.
Most men have no idea how pleasurable it can be for them when I devote myself to their nipples with my tongue and lips.
Yes, I think it’s great too, but I know many men who don’t like it.
Not me, I just know a lot of men who claim they don’t like it.
Some of them came ten minutes after I played with their nipples, without a single other touch.
What do you do differently?
As I said, I love oral sex, and playing with the nipples with my mouth and lips is also a form of oral sex.
I take my time, a lot of time. I lick his nipples gently, then increase the intensity. I circle them with my tongue, letting my saliva run over them. I press them lightly and firmly with my tongue, bite them, lick them again. I pay attention to his moans, his breathing. I feel his arousal, how his member becomes hard.
He is not allowed to do anything, he should concentrate fully on the incredibly intense sensations that this game triggers in him.
Many fall into a state of ecstasy, comparable to an orgasm.
How long do you do this?
As long as we both enjoy it – so quite a long time. Sometimes we take breaks, after which it’s often even more intense.
I like it when men eventually touch their penises, rub them and ejaculate while I lick their nipples. When the semen then flows out of them and my tongue has guided them there – it’s an incredible feeling.
I’m slowly beginning to understand what you mean by French lovemaking. I almost don’t dare ask about the art of giving a blow job…
You just did.
I find it incredibly arousing too. Especially when what I just described follows the attention paid to his manhood.
And once again, the question: what do you do differently?
Once again, time plays a major role. I see his penis as a miracle of masculinity, to which I devote all my artistry, affection and passion. I’m not interested in quick orgasms, I’m interested in intense experiences.
I imagine how it slowly grows in my mouth, becoming stronger and bigger, then shrinking again, resting inside me, only to rise again.
I lick and suck, circling his glans. I take only the tip into my mouth and make love to it. I like it when I can tie the men’s hands beforehand. They should concentrate solely on this experience.
Why tie them up?
Because men often feel they want to give something back to the woman, to make sure that her arousal grows too. But that’s not necessary at all. I’m at least as aroused as they are, even though I’m giving them oral sex.
This inability to act always creates a little resistance at first, but the man’s body and mind quickly give it up and then a little miracle happens. Although I am only paying attention to one part of his body, he feels the arousal in every fibre of his body.
Do you stay at the tip?
No, at some point I take him completely into my mouth, letting my mouth be very tight at first, like a slightly aroused vagina. He is allowed to thrust into my mouth as if he were.
My mouth opens wide for him. Then I hold his cock firmly and he has to lie still. I push it very slowly deep into my throat. It disappears inside me, then I pull it out again. We do this again and again. Ten times, twenty times. Always so that he doesn’t come, but is close to it.
Then he is allowed to rest for a moment and I return to French kissing and playing with his nipples.
Then deep throat again.
I could do this for hours because it excites me as much as it excites him.
And as I said, we didn’t touch each other anywhere else.
That sounds great. Is the man allowed to come in your mouth?
Yes, of course. The best thing is when, after deep throating him, I let him fuck my mouth again and then close my mouth tightly, like an unexcited vagina. The orgasm this triggers is so intense that some men come for minutes.
