What is actually the perfect age to be successful as an escort?
That’s a great question that I get asked time and time again. Men all want very young women who are wild and exuberant. Of course, they have to be slim and beautiful. That’s what many people think. But men aren’t that simple. I am 39 years old and work as the managing director of Aurelie Secret Escort and also as an international escort. When I was in my mid-20s, I thought that as an escort I could work until I was 30 or maybe 32, and then men would want younger women. Now, at 39, I’m surprised. I feel more desirable than ever before in my life and I’m enjoying it!
But why is it that I feel this way, and so do many of my dear colleagues over 40?
I love orgasms. I love kinks. I love it crazy. Sure: men who want to spend time with an escort want sex. Me too, by the way. Because I love sex. The game of seduction, gentleness, and roughness. I love orgasms. For him and for me. And I love adventure. Kinks in all variations. Crazy things. But obviously, that’s not the only appeal. Because for us, it’s not just about quick sex. About simple satisfaction through ejaculation. It’s about more than that. It’s about sensual experience. About tolerance and openness. About the ability to completely attune oneself to another person and their needs and preferences for hours, nights, weekends, or longer. It’s about the attractiveness and beauty of a woman, just as the beauty and attractiveness of summer is important throughout the year.
Sex must be unforgettable
And it’s by no means about working through sexual desires, but rather about turning them into a great, unforgettable experience together. I have a very dear guest who loves golden showers. For him, it is a sensual, wonderful experience. Fulfillment and satisfaction at the same time. Together with him, I have discovered how wonderfully we harmonize. I appreciate the conversations with him, a wonderful meal. We laugh and I like to listen to his stories. There is always something beautiful and informal about it.
Sex must be unforgettable
And it’s not about working through sexual desires, but rather about turning them into a great, unforgettable experience together. I have a very dear guest who loves golden showers. For him, it’s a sensual, wonderful experience. Fulfillment and satisfaction at the same time. Together with him, I discovered how wonderfully we harmonize. I appreciate the conversations with him, a wonderful meal. We laugh and I like listening to his stories. There is always something wonderful and relaxed about it.
I love letting my golden shower run over him
When we are alone in a nice hotel (he has great taste), a wonderful magic develops between us, an erotic choreography that culminates in me letting my golden shower run over him. I really like seeing his arousal, his joy, his satisfaction. And in that moment, I am completely at one with his desires; in that moment, I love golden showers. Although I myself don’t particularly like it when a man’s golden shower runs over me. But now—with him and with him—I love this kink.
When secret desires become powerful climaxes
An unusual sexual practice? No, I don’t think so. It’s a preference we share, and I believe that in sex and love, anything goes as long as both partners enjoy it. And yet I am firmly convinced that such experiences require experience. Not just experience with sexual practices, but experience with people’s preferences and desires. Because let’s be honest: we all have secret desires that we can’t and don’t really want to express. And I really enjoy exploring these desires and turning them into magnificent climaxes. Life experience also goes hand in hand with empathy, understanding the thoughts and feelings of others.
He wanted to finger me on the bar stool and take me anally
I was very excited about my date with a very attractive man in Frankfurt. He was already very dominant, demanding, and extremely clear about his desires on the phone. I wasn’t supposed to wear any underwear while we were sitting at the bar so that he could finger me under my skirt in front of everyone. After that, we were supposed to go to a suite on the 8th floor of the hotel. In the elevator, he wanted me to lick his cock. In the room, he wanted to tie me up and take me anally. It didn’t sound like a dream date, but I was curious. When I arrived at the bar, a handsome man was sitting there, very well-groomed and polite. We drank champagne and he began to talk. About money, about power, about business. But also about his family, his marriage, his love of cars.
I opened my legs so he could see my vagina
I sat across from him and opened my legs slightly so he could see my beautiful vagina. He looked at it—without greed in his eyes. Almost warmly. And instead of sliding his fingers into me, as he had announced, he took my hand and continued talking. I liked that. The conversation became more and more open, we talked about eroticism, about how he had everything and yet never exactly what he wanted. I sensed that none of what he had demanded corresponded to his deepest desires.
I touched his penis while kissing him
We took the elevator upstairs—without a blow job. He held my hand and we didn’t say a word. After the door closed, I kissed him. Very intensely. For a very long time. I caressed his body, opened his shirt, and played with his nipples, touching his penis. It was large, but not hard. We didn’t say a word. I was the one who led him to the bed.
“You won’t do anything I don’t expressly allow you to do.”
“You won’t do anything I don’t expressly allow you to do,” I said to him, and from then on, he was at my mercy. I ignored all the wishes he had barked into the phone. I sensed what he wanted, and he gave himself over completely. Without saying a word, he let his unspoken desires be fulfilled. At that moment, he got a beautiful erection that lasted for two hours.
I took him anally with my strapon. He enjoyed it for an hour.
In the end, it wasn’t him who took me anally, but me who took him. I pleasured him with my strap-on for over an hour, and he enjoyed it more and more with every minute. So did I, by the way. It was a magical night. I’m sure that at 25, I wouldn’t have been able to see behind this man’s façade. To suspect that perhaps a completely different desire was hidden, one that didn’t really fit with the image he had created for himself. It takes some life experience and openness to create an atmosphere in which men can open up about special desires, dreams, and fantasies. I love what I do, and I love it when men let things happen between us.
I know exactly how to give men anal pleasure
I find sexual experiences very important. If a man likes pegging, i.e., being penetrated anally by me with a strap-on dildo, I find it very important that I know exactly what I’m doing. It’s not just about avoiding pain altogether, but about giving him maximum pleasure. And I don’t think that works if I’m not confident about what I’m doing in every situation. There’s almost nothing I wouldn’t want to do with a man. But not everything is appropriate in every situation.
In search of maximum pleasure
It’s also good to have experience in this area. To find out what will give him maximum pleasure during our time together. And I don’t just mean sexually. Most men like conversation. But not superficial chit-chat, rather real conversation. They want someone who is genuinely interested in them. Without ulterior motives or hidden agendas. Someone who is interested in their job, their life, their preferences. Someone who takes their sexual desires seriously and is willing to engage with them without prejudice or judgment. But they also want someone who is willing to engage completely with their partner during their time together. With their body, their desires, their horniness. I have wonderful colleagues at Aurelie Secret Escort, such as Dalila and Sophia, who are my age. Their experiences are exactly the same. We all love sex and eroticism – of course. But we also love life in all its facets and forms. And we love men who really live life with all its ups and downs. And our experience is that when we get together with these men, it is guaranteed to be an unforgettable moment.
I wish you an exciting time.
EWA
